We all want it to be, but come on, this is real life. And it can be a little more messy and complicated. Good, I hope you never have to. Whatever you choose, is your choice. You need to have your genitals look how you want them to look.
12 Ways to Make Sex with a New Partner Good | Girls Chase
Sick of one-night stands? Having sex with a new partner is supposed to be epic, fun, and a gateway to more amazing sex. But often the affair ends after only one session. Personally, I am not a fan of one-night stands. Approaching, mesmerizing, and picking up very attractive women is no small effort.
17 Tips For Sleeping With Someone New
You're dating a guy, and the make-out sessions have been so hot, you've practically dry humped holes into each other's jeans. With all that chemistry, the sex has to be off the hook from the start, right? You aren't completely comfortable with each other yet. Plus, there's so much at stake the first time — if the sex is bad, you could second-guess the budding relationship.
Years ago, when I broke up with my first serious boyfriend — who I'd been in a relationship with for nearly four years — he wasn't just a guy I dated for a long time; he was the first guy I ever had sex with as well. He also became sexually abusive over time, and sexually assaulted me on more than one occasion, so having sex with someone new after all of that was both freeing and frightening. During the months following our breakup, I mostly had a lot of fun sleeping with new people; but I also found that, as fun and exciting as having sex with a new partner can be, it can also be kind of stressful.